בChelek 2
- Four people need to thank Hashem:
- Sea-farers. Only when they reach their final destination on land.
- Travelers in the wilderness. Only when they reach their final destination of settlement.
- Healed from sickness. Only when he is strong and walking around.
- Released from prison. Only when waiting a potential death sentence or when the prison itself is a dangerous place. (Excluding a day-jail for petty crimes.) (ShA – MB , , – BeH ”chavush”)
- Since the above salvations could be life-threatening, Chazal instituted a beracha when the threat is no longer, even if no danger actually happened. (BeH “yor’day”)
- Children do not say this beracha, even for chinuch. (MB )
- The minhag is that women do not say this beracha. Some say she should say the beracha in front of 10 people – at least some women and 1 man. (MB )
- L’chatchila, stand when reciting the beracha as follows: Boruch atta Hashem Elokaynu Melech ha’olam hagomel l’chayovim tovos sheg’molani kol tov. The listeners should respond, “Mi sheg’mol’cha kol tov, hu yigmol’cha kol tov selah”. (ShA – MB )
- Hagomel should be recited in the presence of 10 (including the ba’al hanais), of which 2 are scholars of halacha. The minhag is to say the beracha after Krias Hatorah. (ShA )
- If you do not have 10 people, do not say the beracha with the Shem. If you do not have 2 scholars, you do say the beracha normally. If there are not 10 people, wait to say the beracha for 30 days – maybe you will get 10 people. (ShA – MB )
- You can be motzi someone who also needs to say Hagomel, provided both you and he had kavana to be yotzay. (ShA )
- It is proper not to delay the beracha for 3 days. This is more important than the minhag to recite Hagomel with a sefer Torah. Therefore, if he was set free from prison on Monday after Krias Hatorah, he should say the beracha with 10 people without the sefer Torah – don’t wait until Thursday. B'dieved, if you delayed the beracha, you can say the beracha as long as you like. (ShA – MB )
- The minhag Ashkenaz is to say Hagomel only after travelling through a wilderness. Do not bless Hagomel just from one city to the other unless the road is known to be exceptionally dangerous. (ShA )
- How sick is “sick”? Either life threatening (e.g. high fever, internal wound) or sick in bed for 3 days or more. (ShA – MB )
- The above mentioned four situations are laav davka. Any other life threatening situation that one is saved from deserves a Birkas Hagomel. Examples: a wall fell on him, trampled or gored by an ox, attacked by a lion, attacked by robbers. Don’t forget the blessing upon seeing the location of the miracle mentioned above in Siman 218. (ShA – MB , )