בChelek 2
- If the table is set for a meal and you will be eating imminently, it is forbidden to eat foods that do not require a beracha during the meal – this will cause you to make a beracha that is otherwise not needed. You should first say Hamotzi and thereby exempt all those other foods. (MB )
- Two exceptions to the above:
- You specifically enjoy those foods more before eating bread.
- You want to eat them to stimulate your appetite. Its best to be careful and eat only less than a k’zayis. (MB – ShaH9)
- Let’s say you ate other food just before netillas yodayim, do you need to say a beracha achrona on them? It depends:
- Minay Mezonos (like after a morning Kiddush) – argument. It is better not to bless, especially if you will be eating more of it during the seuda. Just, l’chatchila, have them in mind during Birkas Hamazon.
- Fruit (an example of food that would need a beracha even during the seuda) – if you will continue to eat more during the seuda, Birkas Hamazon will cover all of it. If you don’t plan on eating fruit during the seuda, say a beracha achrona.
- Meal foods that would be toffel to the bread – if eaten as an appetizer, no separate beracha achrona is required. If not, the food is not considered a part of the seuda – say a Boray Nefashos. (MB )